saya percayakan long distance love!

long distance love??
have u encounter this situation??
one at the Mesir,,da other one in Australia??
ok,,how about long distance but still in our country..
such as Johor n Kelantan??
or maybe Johor and Kedah??
north and south??

::Kelantan::Johor::Kedah::

omg omg omg~


i suddenly thought about it!
just now,,i have my blogwalking~
2 blog -->one belonging to the wife and the other one belonging to the hubby!
both of them are separated far awaaaaayyy!
one in the German!
the other one in India~
ok,,for me~
it is enough 2 make me meroyan,..hahaha
>blog hubbynya<
>blog wifenya<


n what a coincidence,,
last night,,i'm attending Program Memperkasa Puteri!
the lecturer who in charge the programs told that she was encounter this situation!
she and her husband also starting with long distancelove!
now,,they are geeting married!
omg omg omg.. =,=


2 be honest,,
when i was still wearing uniform school,,
i always told my friends dat i will never believe in long distance love??
i hate it!
i will never ever accept it!
oh no!
i dont want it 2 happened!
why??

there are many reason why i cant accept it you know~

but!


...Boleh jadi kamu membenci sesuatu, padahal ia amat baik bagimu, dan boleh jadi (pula) kamu menyukai sesuatu, padahal ia amat buruk bagimu; Allah mengetahui, sedang kamu tidak mengetahui. (Surah al-Baqara: 216)


i'm sure all of us have heard dis Al-Quran sentences right??


yeah,,if in da past i hate long distance love,,
but now,,i already accept it and i love this kind of love!<3
when i became IPDA's student,,

my perspective towards dis case has changed!

totally changed!

why??


because i need to separate with my family for my future!
i was in Kedah,but my family in Kelantan..
although we have been separated by the distances,,

right now,,i miss my family damnly..T__T

but,,i dont think that my love towards my family less day by day!
distances that separate us makes me more time for self reflection!
distances that separate us make me more appreciate each other!
distances that separate us make me more learn family values!
distances that separate us make me realize how i love them so much!
and they always in my mind!
my heart!
n ofcos in my doa!


same goes when it comes to romantic relationships with the beloved one!
far from your eyes doesnt meaning that it also far from your heart okay!
deep in your eyes, close to the heart!^^


furthermore, we are in the world of technology!

Facebook,skype,twitter,chatting and of course calling2,,messaging can be one way 2 keep in touch!

thats why if i miss someone,i'll stalk his wall>facebook<!!! (omg,,secret revealed!hahaha)
everyday if i log in,,after checking my notification,,COMFIRM his wall will be under my investigation..heeee
and i also still have my henfon 2 contact with him~
furthermore,i dont think that just because we are not meet each other,,our love will less and less!

this is how i learn the meaning of "missing"!

indirectly, it teach me 2 be more loyal, patience n so on in order 2 maintain a good relationship!


and i'm sure,
as much as i miss my family,,that much i miss him!
as much as i love my family,,that much i love him!
as much as i remember my family,,that much i remember him!

as much as i appreciate my family,, that much i appreciate him in my life!

as much as in my doa i pray for my family,, that much i pray for him!

as much as i tried 2 be a good daughter when be distant from my family, that much i tried 2 be good 'makmum' for him!


insyallah!everything will under control!
just believe in providence, fate, and destiny!
and the most important is.....
believe in matchmaking by Allah which has written in the Luh Mahfuz! (:
near or far, long or short it is not the question!
remember sabda Rasulullah SAW:

“Ketika di­tiupkan roh pada anak manu­sia tatkala ia masih di dalam perut ibunya, sudah ditetap­kan ajalnya, rezekinya, jodohnya dan celaka atau bahagianya di akhirat”.

if u are not meant to him,,do not frust!

plenty to pray!

Firman Allah in surah Ghafir ayat 55, “Berdoalah kamu kepadaKu nescaya Aku perkenankan doa permohonan kamu. Sesungguhnya orang-orang yang sombong takbur daripada beribadat dan berdoa kepadaKu, akan masuk neraka Jahannam dalam keadaan hina.”

just try 2 maintain it as best as u can!

since Allah has set our mate, then, it is not for us to fear and worry!

believe in Allah!

perempuan-perempuan yang baik untuk laki-laki yang baik dan laki-laki yang baik untuk perempuan-perempuan yang baik. [Surah al-Nur, ayat 26]

so yana!

belajarlah menghadapi situation ini!

chaiyoookkkkk!